Obituary of Robert Lee Towers as written by Robert Lee Towers, May, 2012.

I was given the gift of life and the Lord will gently take this gift from me so I will not endure any further suffering.

Writing my own obituary was a long ago decision but was never at the top of my list of "things to do". I have asked my honey and best friend, my wife Karen for some assistance.

I say god-bye by way of a hug to my son John, my loving sis Barbara, her family and stepson David who I never gave up on.
I am so very proud to have been a part of the fire service, employed as a firefighter, engineer and retired as a captain for the City of Montebello.

Many years membership of the American Legion Post 211 and Lompoc Elks Lodge, I recall many happy memories, good times, friends and special friend Boni. I will take with me her friendship of many years, many, many visits at the nursing home and our "secret".

When the nursing home became my "home" in March, 2012 I cannot find words to describe my many mixed feelings.

If you saw me around town in the last 5-6 years and I did not remember your name, did not recognize you and say hello, shake your hand or engage in conversation, forgive me. Alzheimer's was to blame.'

At this time, while I can remember, I thank each and every loving nurse that stood by my side every day and cared for me. God Bless.

Karen, my memory is fading but my love for you will always remain in my heart. We can never forget the 35 years of happiness and giggles we shared. Together we enjoyed hundreds of beautiful sunsets which is only one happy memory of our life together. I am tired now, it is your turn to write, my honey.

The day Bob and I had to let go of each other will remain with me always. I ask you please; say a prayer for this kind and gentle man.

Approximately 1 and ½ years ago, after the admission to the nursing home, Bob was diagnosed with cancer. I know he truly fought for both of us till the end. My gratitude for all of nursing at the Lompoc Skilled Nursing and Rehab Center from day one that turned to friendship and love after all this time. As well, Hospice nurses and chaplain were there and cared for both of us every step of the way. One word describes Hospice and that is "angels". Thank you to the doctors at Valley Medical Group for their care and concerns.

Donations to the Alzheimer's Association, Hospice or the American Cancer Society are very much appreciated.

So long my Bob till we hold hands once again.